Potty or toilet training is an exciting step for most toddlers. It is another milestone in their development and an activity they have complete control over which is perfect for their new found independence. It can be a tough few days, weeks, months for a parent though and unfortunately there is no one, catch-all rule to potty training. There really is one perfect approach, though, and that is to assume the role of the guide and help, rather than dictate, your child with the process.
Most children are ready to begin potty training when they are between 18-20 months old. In the beginning, it is important to help your child label the sensations associated with going - whether you can note it while she is going in the toilet or in her diaper. Make sure you use simple, straightforward, and consistent language with your child - meaning if your child goes to school or daycare let your caregiver know what words you use (is it poop, poo, etc.). Then, guide him through the steps (flushing, wiping, and washing) that should always follow using the toilet, whether she actually went or not. Some children may be unsure about flushing so work on guiding them towards that step if they are cautious. It may also be helpful to set up an initial routine of trying to use the potty maybe every 30 minutes. This can help your toddler greatly as they can sometimes get distracted from listening to their bodies when working on an activity or with friends. It is important not to force your child on the potty though and if they simply do not want to go give them the option to try again in 5 minutes.
Consistency in your language and routines will really lay the foundation for your potty training. It is up to both you and your child to decide specifics like underwear vs. pull-ups or what kind of potty chair you want to use. Happy potty training!
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